Monday, September 22, 2008

mistakezzz...

many ppl make mistakes in their daily life...it's ok to make mistakes but do u realised wat mistakes u've done?no point u've done the mistakes but dunno the cause of it...

i've read a book entitled "men are from mars, women are from venus"...it's an old book bought few years ago n just started to read it recently...it teaches me alot on wat women actually want in a relationship...it's very simple...

five primary needs:
1.Care
2.Understand
3.Respect
4.Devotion
5.Reassurance

it's all interrelated in order to fulfill girls primary need...
do u, especially to those girls out there agree wit it?

taking care n concern of her evryday doesnt mean understanding her need...witout understanding, things will nvr go smoothly...

at 1st many guy thinks tht by taking extra care towards their gf, especially their health n daily stress due to assignments, tests, works, etc., then their relationship will b as strong as a diamond...however it's wrong...totally WRONG...it's not just about care n concern...it's understanding her needs...no matter how much care u've given, it's just not enough cos u wouldnt know wat she desired in the relationship...

however, from this problems, u'll know wat is the most important thing 2 maintain a relationship, tht is 2 understand her need...can u imagine her frustration n stress in the relationship when u dun understand her well?wat u will feel if she do the same thing 2 u?..it's really hard 2 digest it rite?

to those couples out there, especially guys, remember money is not an ultimate factor in a relationship...even if u have money, wat can u do wit it?spend the money wit her witout understand wat she really 1 n u expect tht she'll b happy wit it?money cant buy happiness...it's the 5 primary needs i've mentioned above...did u fulfill all of the above in ur relationship?if not mayb u can try it out n hopefully it'll make ur life more n more happy than b4...

4 comments:

Adrian Benjamin Lim said...

ala....curi-curi guna internet untuk post benda ni...hahaha

So,CC Trip kali ni tak jumpa "target" ke?hehe

wah ching said...

haha...apa pula target...i go there 2 release working tension la...bit boring witout internet ma so post something tht come across my mind lo...u syok la...still enjoy uni life...working life sucks man...

JiHouh said...

HAI!! SenSei! Wakarismasta!

=.=

tibe tibe. emo a?

wah ching said...

apeni...act cute pula...haha...sikit sikit emo la...but wat i said is true also la...cos witout knowing my's need, both of u sure will quarrel 1 rite? so have 2 b patient n try 2 understand it lo...cakap senang la...tapi nak buat tu ada sikit susah...i myself try 2 improve on it lo...
:-(

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